Week #1: Reflection
Week one of my senior project, Educating in Ecuador Preparation, was a challenging yet fun, and exhausting yet exhilarating learning experience. The week had its ups and downs, and there were certainly points where I wanted to sit down and stop. However, the feeling of utter reward after working with kids and being an impactful part of their day, outweighed the difficulties I encountered. The valuable life lessons I have learned from students and educators in a mere week are unmatched.
After observing and helping a handful of teachers in both Hanover Street Elementary School and Lebanon Middle School, I have seen quite a variety of teaching styles. Teachers who offer more constructive feedback and try to push kids towards solutions when they are struggling or there is conflict are more times than not, successful. Gentle criticism, especially with younger elementary school-aged kids, was far more productive than abrasive yelling or critiquing. Little kids respond positively to suggestions as opposed to demands. I noticed that teachers or adults that used harsher tones or phrases had kids that did not respond in a positive manner. Whether the child retaliated even further in response to the adult, or became visually upset and emotionally distressed, yelling negative or mean words to try and correct the situation was almost never productive.
I worked with numerous kids this week, from a diverse age range, and from a plethora of home situations. Many children come from tough family situations or unfortunate socioeconomic positions, which in turn affects their behavior, energy, and outlook on school. Keeping this in mind, I personally had to think a lot about why a kid may be acting the way they are. A kid has no control over where they live, their parents, whether or not they have food and many other important factors. I have again been reminded of how fortunate I am and how amazing and sheltered my childhood was. I have never known food or water insecurity, the issue of not having clean clothes, a consistent home, or parents that love me unconditionally. The same cannot be said for many of the kids I had the opportunity to work with this week. I have learned the importance of patience with children, as what many of them experience is entirely not their fault, nor do they have any control. I have also remembered why empathy and kindness are always crucial. Overall, this week was a lot of fun and I am pumped for week two!
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